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    My name is Melissa Squires.. What I do is to capture frames of you that show your real true inner shining rock star self. It isn’t about being someone else, dressing some certain way and you don't need any secret sauce, you are what makes YOU and wonderful and interesting and special. My images reflect the beauty, joy, and inner soul of my subjects, and the moments they inhabit.. these images are forever.

    Photography is how I express myself, how I see, how I celebrate who we are today.

    My son is my breath and my husband is my life. I will be quite satisfied when I am 80 if I have loved them well and taken some amazing photographs along the way.

    Booking weddings now for 2013

    Portrait sessions are limited and booking two - three months in advance; thank you for contacting and booking ahead of time to guarantee your session

    contact me : email melissa@agirlinlove.com, text me or call me at 517-902-3905, follow me on twitter @agirlinlove and of course I'm all over facebook

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“I don’t know why I like this but I just do.”

You know what, when I hear someone say this from flickr to facebook I wonder what does that mean. Are they saying it because they really aren’t sure why they like it, or are they saying it because they feel they can’t say they like it because maybe it isn’t up to some standard they think it should be. They are worried about being judged..

I don’t think there is any kind of cold hard set list of rules that make an amazing image. There are some good guidelines to follow or learn as you are starting out perhaps, maybe, but art is about creation and creation by definition implies attempting to break the rules…

It also gets me when someone shares their work and apologizes for something that they think ‘should’ be a flaw. Light flare (love it), motion blur (moves people), focus shift (different is quite often nice). I think that this is another version of the above statement but this person has bought into the “only one way is right” school of thought. When I hear this I always think of this one of my favorite quotes:

“Every time someone tells me how sharp my photos are, I assume that it isn’t a very interesting photograph. If it were, they would have more to say. ”

I am asked what it is about my photographs that make them what they are, what makes them special. What am I doing to get what I get. I can’t say exactly. I sometimes take offense when someone says “Well of course that picture is amazing you shoot with x, y or z.”  Robert Doisneau said “If I knew how to take a good photograph, I’d do it every time.” But I can say that while I technically know my camera inside and out. I can shoot in noon sun and I can shoot after dark, I can take a technically great image with a cheap plastic toy camera and a 5k dslr. I can use natural or artificial light with the same confidence. I am very rarely concerned about capturing something beautifully and well because of the CONDITIONS.. The technical side of an image will never make anyone’s soul sing. If all you are focusing on is making the exposure perfect and the image sharp you are missing the point entirely.

I believe a photograph that fulfills its purpose does steal a little of someones soul, it lays bare the real person from underneath the mask we all try to wear all the time, it is a wisp of a moment, the hint of love, anticipation, fear, hilarity, magnetism – it carries with it more then can be described in words and oftentimes shows what can only be felt.

It isn’t f stop or shutter speed or focus that does that, it is the heart behind the machine that does that.

And let me tell you another secret. While we are unique creatures if you love it, someone else does. And if you do not love it why are you shooting it at all?

joanne - You’re dead on. It’s not just about the technicality’s. It’s about capturing magic with a click. It’s about preserving a moment of time.

I love your work. It’s beautiful and it makes my heart glow. Keep it up!July 4, 2009 – 3:32 am

vivienne - i love this post!July 4, 2009 – 12:19 pm

maile - i adore this post.July 6, 2009 – 3:36 pm

melissa - thank you all, I love writing them I appreciate your kind words!July 6, 2009 – 5:05 pm

sbwellman@tc3net.com - AMEN Sista!! and I don’t even take pictures, but this is why I love U!July 7, 2009 – 3:20 pm

Betty - oh so right on – it’s like your talking through my heart

i wish I were better able to keep current with your blog – you never fail to inspire meJuly 14, 2009 – 12:38 pm

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